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Curvy Nigerian OAP, Toolz Speaks on Her Journey to Self Love & Acceptance as She Debuts an Online Shopping Destination For Plus Size Women


Curvy Nigerian media mogul, on air personality at Beat 99.9FM and philanthropist, Tolu Oniru Demuren popularly known as Toolz, is no stranger to the fashion scene. Aside from her personal style which is constantly expressive, bold and at times daring, she has been involved in several fashion events including The ATCL Collective where she walked the runway wearing a piece from designer Osuare at the prestigious Lagos Fashion and Design Week (LFDW) in 2017.

As she prepares to unveil her new lingerie line Seblier, an online shopping destination which would house frilly lingerie designs exclusive to plus size women, the curvy OAP speaks on the journey to self-love and acceptance. The brand seeks to not only cater to the fashion needs of every plus size woman, but would also be another voice of representation, confidence and empowerment to the plus size community.

Welcome to the journey with Toolz

“The journey to accepting my body hasn’t really been a smooth one. Growing up, I wasn’t particularly confident. As a plus-size and curvy girl, you tend to feel out of place – my body type wasn’t the hot thing back then. I just didn’t fit in. I became very self-conscious – I thought my hips were too wide… my bum was too big, and I was on the short side,” the host of ‘Midday Show with Toolz’ recounts.


“As a teenager, you are dealing with a lot, especially when it comes to self-identity and accepting yourself. And you often get confused about what beautiful is. My self-consciousness got so bad at one point that I had to cover up all the time. In the middle of summer, I would wear a light coat to cover up my hips, and people thought I was weird. Clothes shopping was a bit of nightmare, not to talk of shopping for lingerie. Most of the lingerie in plus sizes were quite unattractive; boring styles and colours with super thick straps. Sadly, inclusivity wasn’t such a big thing when I was growing up, you were basically stuck with what was available.

“Later in life, I began to notice and research curvy/plus size models like Tabria Majors, Candice Huffine, Anita Marshall and Ashley Graham – her confidence is incredible! In an industry that is notoriously discriminating about anyone above a size 8, seeing this beautiful and curvy ladies flourish was magical. I was extremely inspired to say the least.

“Being in the public eye also had a big impact on my ‘acceptance journey’. I have been bashed and shamed about my body on so many occasions, I can’t even count. The first few times it happened, I was very hurt, because there was always so much venom behind the attacks, and I would be at home in tears thinking what did I do to anyone to warrant this? Unfortunately, this comes with being in the public eye, and I soon managed to get thick skin.

“On the positive side, as I got more popular I began getting messages from women who admired me for being one of a few plus size women in the public eye. I would get messages from young women who had contemplated suicide because they looked different, and they were being bullied for that. They would write and say how seeing pictures of me boosted their confidence – making them accept themselves and their bodies. These comments made me realize that my presence and visibility in the industry was having a positive impact on at least a few people.

“My experience strengthened me and gave me a voice – one which I have decided to use in empowering and boosting the confidence of plus-size women like me – those who are currently in a physical and psychological battle to accept their own bodies.”



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